Dear Zachary- A Letter To A Son About His Father • Latest & Direct
Dear Zachary is a masterpiece of radical empathy and radical anger. It is a letter that was never received, turned into a scream that the whole world heard. Watch it once. Remember it forever.
Then, the film’s architecture shifts. The second act introduces Shirley Turner, Andrew’s obsessive ex-girlfriend who murdered him. Kuenne presents the facts coldly: she fled to Canada while pregnant, claimed the baby was Andrew’s, and was granted bail despite being a clear flight risk and danger. The Canadian justice system’s leniency becomes the film’s secondary villain. Dear Zachary- A Letter to a Son About His Father
The true genius, however, is the third act— For those who don’t know the story (and this review will avoid the final spoiler, though the film’s reputation precedes it), Kuenne buries a knife that he twists not once, but twice. The editing rhythm changes; the music drops out; the screen goes black. What follows is a raw, unbroken sequence of Kuenne himself weeping, his camera shaking as he interviews Andrew’s parents, Kate and David. The formal structure collapses into pure, unfiltered trauma. The Emotional Mechanism: No Catharsis, Only Wound Most true-crime documentaries offer a form of closure: an arrest, a conviction, a moral lesson. Dear Zachary denies you this. Instead, it forces you to experience the Bagbys’ rage in real time. Kuenne includes the actual voicemails from lawyers, the bureaucratic letters, the footage of Shirley Turner laughing. He even includes a montage of her singing folksongs—a bizarre, chilling choice that humanizes the monster just enough to make her actions more incomprehensible. Dear Zachary is a masterpiece of radical empathy
The film’s central question is not “Who killed Andrew Bagby?” but “Why does a system protect a killer over victims?” Kuenne’s rage is laser-focused on Canada’s bail laws, but he’s wise enough to show that anger alone is simplistic. The deeper wound is existential: How do you go on living when the world refuses to deliver justice? Dear Zachary raises uncomfortable ethical questions. Is it right to show Andrew’s parents sobbing uncontrollably? To broadcast the details of a toddler’s death? Kuenne never asks permission from the audience; he forces intimacy. Some critics argue the film crosses into emotional pornography—using real suffering for dramatic effect. Remember it forever
Anyone who believes they understand grief, injustice, or documentary ethics. But be warned: you will not be the same person after the credits roll.
Survivors of child loss, intimate partner violence, or severe trauma. This film is a weapon, not a comfort.