But knowing the switch is there? That is the first step to freedom.
In the Milgram shock experiments, ordinary people administered what they thought were lethal electric shocks simply because a man in a lab coat told them to. Cialdini argues that we don't even need real authority; we just need the symbols of authority: Titles (Doctor, Professor), Clothes (a police uniform or a suit), and Trappings (fancy cars, Rolexes). influence the psychology of persuasion by robert cialdini
Tupperware parties (the host is your friend, so you buy to please her). The salesperson who "discovers" they went to the same college as you. The politician who rolls up their sleeves and eats a hot dog to look "just like you." But knowing the switch is there
Cialdini says you can reject the initial gift. But if you accept it, you must realize that the "rule" is activated. You are allowed to say, "If you are giving me this to get something later, I don't want it." Or, simply define the favor for what it is: a trick. If someone gives you a flower, you are not legally obligated to buy them a house. 2. Scarcity: The Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) The Rule: The less available something is, the more we want it. Cialdini argues that we don't even need real